“I appreciate you!” has become a common, perhaps overused, phrase. The real test is whether the person’s actions support that proclamation because appreciation is an action word. Here are three actions you can take to make sure your expressions of appreciation are well received, especially at work. Customize When I was a supervisor in university administration some years ago, I…
A Three-Step Process for Constructively Conveying Concerns Difficult conversations are inevitable. We’ve all had those moments when we must voice concerns, address an issue, or share negative feedback. To make difficult conversations less difficult, try my three-step process for constructively conveying concerns: A.I.R. – A- Awareness, I- Impact, R- Request AWARENESS – Give the other person the benefit of the…
When it comes to teamwork, small actions can make a big difference. Over the years, I’ve discovered that the best teams aren’t necessarily the ones with the most talent, but the ones who consistently practice the basics of team collaboration. Here are 7 ways to keep your team on track and make teamwork work. This can also be used as…
Difficult conversations don’t have to ruin the relationship. Find out four ways to address the issues while keeping the relationship intact. We’ve all been there. A co-worker misses a deadline. A team member’s tone comes across as dismissive. A client makes a request that’s just not realistic. In that moment, you have a choice: avoid the issue and hope it…
“I told you so” along with “That’s a dumb idea,” “I knew you couldn’t do it” and “What were you thinking?!!” are just some of the nasty comments that may catch us off guard when they come our way. Even worse is when those well-intentioned, but hurtful comments come from people close to us such as co-workers or family. I…
I learned from reading the book The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman that my preferred love languages are “acts of service” and “quality time.” In fact, my husband—with whom I celebrated our one-year wedding anniversary in December 2015—won me over with his acts of service such as offering to take me to the airport before dawn for a 6:00am…